They might even be beyond her control. But you have a far better chance of changing your own emotional state than you do of changing hers.
They are genuine emotions, generated from inside her, or from her reaction to some perceived events in the world outside her. Allow her the dignity of having her feelings. And allow her the dignity of being responsible for her own moods. Study your own reaction to her moods. Does that stress make you irritable or angry? If a woman throws a tantrum and her man then loses control of his emotions, she then loses some of her feelings of respect and attraction for him.
The more respect and attraction that a woman feels for you, the more deeply she falls in love with you. When she can trust in you to be the stronger one in the relationship, it allows her to relax into being a feminine, emotional woman around you. The more feminine and girly your woman feels with you, the more sexually attracted she will be to you.
However, if you are constantly trying to get her to stop being moody and be more like a man, her sexual desire will quickly die away. They spend the majority of their time making things happen e. When a man has a problem, he will either discuss it with others to work out a solution or he will come up with a solution on his own, fix it and then get on with life.
In most cases, she just wants to talk about how she feels about it. When your girlfriend brings up a problem that she is having, she usually just wants you to listen to her rant on about it. It might seem weird to some men that most women simply want to talk about how they feel about a problem, rather than fixing it, but that is women for you. As a man, you might prefer to only discuss problems in a logical, problem-solving manner and might not see the need to get all emotional about it.
If you try to get her to behave like a man, she will lose touch with her femininity around you and thus will lose touch with her sexual attraction to you. One of the keys to successfully maintaining the attraction of a woman and keeping the spark alive in a relationship is to mix it up. Here are 9 ways to handle or deal with her mood swings:. Rather than help, you trying to force a conversation on the issue might just make it worse.
Whatever the cost. Humor can gently guide a woman out of her state and into a new one where she can laugh at herself and the situation. Indeed, one of the greatest feelings in the world is watching a moody girlfriend reluctantly crack a smile. Women love to laugh, and if you can give them something to laugh about, they will almost always appreciate the opportunity to do it.
In these cases, trying to push jokes on her can actually prove counterproductive. Not only will it annoy her, but if you keep trying to change her mood and get a specific reaction from her all it does is make you look needy and uncaring. In these cases you need to try a different tactic.
And paradoxically, the best way to do it is to not try to do anything at all. You simply move the interaction forward ; change the subject, move onto to other things, and stop putting pressure on it all. Their thoughts are just stuck on an unpleasant topic, and they just need a little help to stop fixating on it.
Maybe she needs some space, and maybe you need to come back later and try some combination of the previous three rules. Or maybe you need to let her process it all on her own over time. EVERY woman is moody at times.
This is a skill you need to master. But there is some good news: I offer coaching for men to help them learn how to do it. Contact me for a consultation today. A variation of this article was originally posted at The Social Man. It is a great site, check it out! Subscribers get free goodies like special reports on mindset and female psychology, as well as personal access to me over email.
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